Waiting Room

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Forms

When you first arrive, the adult with you will fill out a form. That form tells the Corrections Officer that someone is there to visit your loved one.

Corrections Officer

The Corrections Officer may be sitting at a desk behind a window. Once the Corrections Officer has looked at your form, you and the adult with you can sit and relax while the Corrections Officer has someone get your loved one so that they can see you.

Metal Detector

When all of the people that have a visitor waiting are ready, a Corrections Officer (likely a different one than was sitting at the desk), will enter the room you have been waiting in to make sure everyone is ready to see their loved one. Part of that check involves each visitor removing anything that is in their pockets (and maybe taking their shoes off) before walking through something called a Metal Detector that looks kind of like a doorway with no walls around it.

Lockers

There may be lockers to put your things in before your enter. The adult that is with you will help make sure that you are ready.

Half Way There Room

Once everyone that is visiting has gone through the doorway, or Metal Detector, and is waiting at the door, you will hear a buzz sound that opens the first set of doors. This brings you into a small room that is halfway between the waiting room and the visitor’s room – let’s call it the “Halfway There Room”! Once everyone is in the small Halfway There Room, that first door you walked through will close (it’s a heavy door so it may make a loud noise when it closes) and another buzzing noise will open the second door into the Visitor’s Room.”

Waiting Room

While waiting to see your parent you will sit in a room with your caregiver that may look like this.

Contact Visit

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Contact Visit

There are two types of Visitor’s Rooms because there are two types of visits. One is called a “Contact Visit” and the other a “Noncontact Visit.” The Visitor’s Room for a Contact Visit will look similar to this; a big room with long tables and chairs.

Sign-in

For Contact Visits, before you can sit down the adult with you must wait in line to write your names on a piece of paper. Once your names are on the list, the Corrections Officers in the Visitor’s Room will let you know where you can sit when you are seeing your loved one!

Noncontact

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Phone

You can talk to your loved one on the telephone that’s there. Talking on a phone and looking at your loved one through glass may feel weird at first. To make it more fun, try to think of games you can play with the glass. Maybe paddy cake? Or copy what each other does as if the glass were a mirror!

Window

The person you are seeing will sit on one side of the glass and you and the adult with you on the other.

Noncontact Visit

For Noncontact Visits, the Visitor’s Room may have glass windows and a phone. The person you are seeing will sit on one side of the glass and you and the adult with you on the other. You can talk to your loved one on the telephone that’s there. Talking on a phone and looking at your loved one through glass may feel weird at first. To make it more fun, try to think of games you can play with the glass. Maybe paddy cake? Or copy what each other does as if the glass were a mirror!

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Questions About Prison

What is prison?
In Connecticut, prison is a place where some arrested and convicted people stay, if staying at prison is part of their consequence for breaking the law, or a rule. If you have a parent in prison you are not alone. 1 in every 14 kids in this country has had a parent in prison. Many of these children are having the same worries, fear and other feelings that you have.

Why do people go to prison?
Some people go to jail, or prison, when they are arrested for breaking the law.

Does the TV really show what prison is like?
Usually it does not.

Questions About My Parent

I don’t know if my parent went to prison or not.
Talk to your caregiver and tell them you would like to know.

How do I know when my parent is getting out of prison?
This is something you need to talk to your caregiver about. It is different for every person in prison.

What will my parent wear?
People in prison wear identical uniforms that look like pajamas or the clothes painters wear. They also have socks, shoes, and jackets.

Questions About Me and My Parent

Can my friend come with me to visit my parent in prison?
You cannot bring your friend to visit, but you can send your parent a photo of you and your friend and tell your parent about your friend and what you like to do together.

Will I be waiting for a while to see my parent?
When you visit your parent you may have to wait for a while. Make sure you follow all the rules you are given (like what you can wear, and what you can and cannot bring in with you) so that you can see your parent.

Can I go to the prison on my own?
You must be at least 18 years old to go on your own. If you are not 18, than you need to have an adult who is on the visitor’s list with you. If you are unsure as to who to go with, ask the adult you live with. If you are 16 years old or younger, you will need to have two forms of ID to see your parent. Talk about this with the adult you the with.

How often can I go?
Every prison is different. Check the visiting schedule for the prison your loved one is in. The schedule may be confusing so ask your family member or caregiver for help.

Can I hug or kiss my parent?
Only if your parent is allowed to have a “contact visit”. If they are allowed to have contact visits, than at the beginning and end of the visit you can briefly hug and kiss. During the visit, you will sit across from each other at a table and cannot touch until saying good-bye. If you are not sure if you are able to touch, ask your parent if it is okay. If your parent is allowed “non-contact visits”, than you will get to see them through a glass partition like a window, and talk using a telephone. You will not get to touch them, though. Sometimes the rules change as to whether a parent can have contact or non-contact visits. Either way, you will get to see and speak with your parent.

What if I want to show my parent things?
You cannot bring anything with you into the prison, but you can tell your parent about it. You might also be able to take a picture of it and send it to them with a letter. Ask the adult you live with about it.